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Bible Studies for Kids · Study 8 of 10

Courage When I’m Afraid.

Courage does not mean never feeling afraid. It means trusting God and taking a wise, faithful next step while fear is present.

📖 Psalm 56:3–4Joshua 1:6–9Mark 4:35–412 Timothy 1:720–30 minutesAges 7–11

Big Question

What can I do when I feel afraid?

Big Truth

Courage does not mean never feeling afraid.

Biblical courage means trusting God and choosing a wise, faithful next step even when fear is present. Sometimes courage means moving forward; sometimes it means stopping, getting help, or telling a trusted adult that something is wrong.

Open Your Bible

Read and notice.

  1. Psalm 56:3–4 — Notice what the writer does when fear comes.
  2. Joshua 1:6–9 — Look for the reason Joshua can be strong and courageous.
  3. Mark 4:35–41 — Pay attention to the disciples’ fear and Jesus’ response during the storm.

1

Feeling afraid is not a failure.

Everyone feels fear sometimes. You may be afraid of a storm, a new school, a test, speaking in front of people, being left out, going to the doctor, losing someone you love, trying something difficult, or not knowing what will happen next.

Fear is a feeling, not a measure of your faith.

Psalm 56 does not say, “I never feel afraid.” It says that when fear comes, the writer chooses to trust God.

2

Courage grows from God’s presence.

In Joshua 1, Joshua is given a huge responsibility. Moses has died, and Joshua must lead God’s people.

God does not tell Joshua to be courageous because Joshua is the strongest person in the world. God reminds him, “I will be with you.”

Our courage is not based on pretending we can control everything. It grows from knowing God is faithful and present.

3

Jesus is Lord even when life feels stormy.

In Mark 4, the disciples are in a real storm. Their fear is not imaginary. The wind and waves are dangerous. Jesus calms the storm and shows His authority.

This story reminds us that Jesus is greater than the powers that frighten us. It does not promise that every frightening situation will end instantly when we pray. Christians still face hard situations. But we can bring our fear to Jesus and trust that He is with us.

4

Some fear can warn us to get help.

Not every fear should be ignored. If a dog is growling and moving toward you, wisdom may mean backing away safely.

If someone threatens you, asks you to keep an unsafe secret, tries to contact you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, or touches you inappropriately, courage may mean telling a trusted adult immediately.

Remember:

If you feel unsafe somewhere, you do not have to prove courage by staying there. Godly courage and wise safety belong together.

5

Courage usually takes one next step.

Sometimes we become overwhelmed because we try to solve the whole future at once. Instead, ask: “What is the next wise thing I can do?”

  • Before a test: study the next section.
  • Before a conversation: pray and plan one truthful sentence.
  • When you are lonely: talk to a trusted person.
  • When you made a mistake: tell the truth.
  • When you do not understand something: ask for help.

One faithful step can be an act of courage.

A Simple Courage Plan

Name it, remember, ask, choose.

N

Name it — “I feel afraid about…”

R

Remember — What is true about God?

A

Ask — Pray and ask a trusted person for help if needed.

C

Choose — Take one safe, faithful next step.

Let’s Think About It

Practice courage wisely.

You are nervous about reading out loud in class. Practice beforehand, ask the teacher a question, pray for calm, and try even though you still feel nervous.

An older person keeps sending you messages and tells you not to show your parents. Do not handle it alone. Stop responding if appropriate, save the messages, and tell a trusted adult. Fear in that situation can be an important warning.

Talk About It

Questions for a child and trusted adult.

  1. Does feeling afraid mean you do not trust God? Why or why not?
  2. What gave Joshua a reason for courage?
  3. What does the storm story show us about Jesus?
  4. Why can some fear be helpful?
  5. What is the difference between courage and taking a foolish risk?
  6. Who are trusted adults a child could go to for help?
  7. What is one small situation where you could practice courage this week?

Try It This Week

Use the Courage Plan once.

  • Name it — Say what you are afraid of.
  • Remember — Choose a Bible truth about God’s presence or faithfulness.
  • Ask — Pray and, when needed, ask a trustworthy person for help.
  • Choose — Take one safe next step.

You can also make a “Courage Card” on paper with Psalm 56:3 as the reference. Keep it in a Bible, backpack, or room as a reminder.

Memory Verse

Psalm 56:3

Learn the verse from the Bible translation your family, church, or class uses. Notice that trust happens in the middle of fear, not only after fear disappears.

Prayer

Bring your fear to God.

God, You know the things that make me afraid. Thank You for being with me. Help me trust You instead of pretending I am never scared. Give me wisdom to know when to move forward, when to wait, and when to get help. Help me tell the truth when something is wrong and take the next faithful step. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Parent / Teacher Note

Normalize ordinary fear without shaming anxiety.

Main objective: Teach children a biblical path toward trust and wise action. Avoid suggesting that strong faith means a child should never feel afraid.

Do not encourage children to take unsafe risks to “prove” courage. Fear can be a protective signal. Teach clearly that threats, grooming, inappropriate touch, coercion, dangerous online contact, or instructions to hide unsafe behavior should be reported to a trusted adult.

For persistent or severe anxiety that affects daily functioning, adults may need to seek appropriate professional support. Prayer and qualified care are not competitors.

Safeguarding

If a child discloses immediate danger or abuse, follow safeguarding procedures and applicable reporting requirements. Do not promise secrecy you cannot keep.

This study does not request children’s private fears or personal information online.

Suggested closing question: What is one true thing about God you can remember when fear shows up?